Tag: Personal Development
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You Don’t Choose Your Beliefs
Beliefs don’t shift by force. They can’t – it wasn’t conscious will or action that put them there. Your beliefs are something you acknowledge rather than dictate. You steer yourself upon them like a boat upon a river. You don’t change them by forcing yourself to think different thoughts but through observation of your thoughts…
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Karma is Not What You Think
Featured Image by Dan4th Nicholas Under Creative Commons License People think karma is little different than a wrathful man in the sky ensuring that every action has a consequence and that everyone will get theirs in time. This is an obvious Abrahamic coat of paint on a concept which has nothing to do with Abrahamic…
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The Most Important Red Flags Are Within
Featured Imaged by Clive Barley Under Creative Commons License Most relationship advice focuses on red flags in other people and how to spot predators and narcissists. Those are good things to know but they aren’t airtight. Absolutely anything can be a red flag depending on the context, and some of these lists get so absurd…
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Anxiety Contains Courage and Confidence
When we’ve decided to manifest something or undertake a challenging task, we want to feel good about it and feel completely confident before we take our first steps. Unfortunately, that’s not how it goes – if you want to get anything done, you’re going to have to be uncomfortable at first. The good news? Taking…
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Nobody Knows How to Read Revelation
There are few labels that get under my skin as much as “chosen one” and this is made all the worse by the fact it is largely coming from Christianity and from parts of Christian mythology that most people are ignorant of. This is among the more esoteric topics I plan to cover, but I…
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Write a Letter From Your Future Self to Yourself
Hekate presented this suggestion while I was doing a session for a client. I might write an article about this eventually. There’s many approaches you can take to this – talking to yourself from the past or future perspective can shift things in your world in surprising ways. Linktree
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Why I Don’t Do Trigger Warnings
As I wrote in my Discord rules, “They’re ineffective, and they’re one of the main tools petty tyrants use to punish people they don’t like.” I think most people are well-intentioned but that they do more harm than good on the whole. I’ve got more to say, but watch the video for a summary of…
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Questions Are More Important Than Answers
In this video I talk about the importance of asking the right questions and opening possibilities as opposed to pursuing certainties. Oftentimes the answers we think we want close off better options and destroy possibilities with greater potential than the paths we see before us. Linktree
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The Problem With “My Truth”
Your perspective is sacred – you cannot heal without using your voice. However, if you do not ground your perspective in a shared reality, it is vapor in the wind. Linktree
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Retrogrades Represent Opportunities
Few things are just good or bad – and that applies to retrogrades as much as anything else. Don’t panic when you see a retrograde – think about how you can use its energy and how it can serve your growth. Linktree