Category: Abuse Recovery
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Elanyx Archives: Are You Being Manipulated? 31 Points to Understand About Manipulation
We didn’t research controlling tactics, or anything, for this information. No, we figured it out on our own, separately together. Life taught me (and my parts) how manipulation works. We only had to pay attention.
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Elanyx Archives: I’m Learning to be Vulnerable Mostly With Myself Only (Here’s Why)
Openness without discernment is actually quite risky.
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The Most Important Red Flags Are Within
Featured Imaged by Clive Barley Under Creative Commons License Most relationship advice focuses on red flags in other people and how to spot predators and narcissists. Those are good things to know but they aren’t airtight. Absolutely anything can be a red flag depending on the context, and some of these lists get so absurd…
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Elanyx Archives: Oppositional Harmony – Can Opposite Aspects Coexist Peacefully?
The following was written by a good friend of mine. I am cross-posting her articles here to ensure that they will always be on the internet and that her words will always have a way of reaching her intended audience. She has struggled immensely in her own life with family who failed to support her…
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Elanyx Archives: (My) Layered Perspective: The Blessing, The Curse, and the Demanding Harmony
The following was written by a good friend of mine. I am cross-posting her articles here to ensure that they will always be on the internet and that her words will always have a way of reaching her intended audience. She has struggled immensely in her own life with family who failed to support her…
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You Can’t Heal From a Place of Ignorance
In this video I go over how the inner world has to connect with the outer world and how reason is as important to healing as heart is. Linktree
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Elanyx Archives: Silence is Golden, But Not Always
The following was written by a good friend of mine. I am cross-posting her articles here to ensure that they will always be on the internet and that her words will always have a way of reaching her intended audience. She has struggled immensely in her own life with family who failed to support her…
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Narcissism Made Simple
Here’s today’s video – a little more on the brief side but an important message to anyone who wonders whether their significant other or family members are narcissists. Linktree
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Elanyx Archives: The Many Contextual Forms of Multiplicity
Featured image by Jerry Cook under Creative Commons License The following was written by a good friend of mine. I am cross-posting her articles here to ensure that they will always be on the internet and that her words will always have a way of reaching her intended audience. She has struggled immensely in her…
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You Do Not Have to Forgive
Featured Image by Simon Under Creative Commons License To forgive is to make yourself a willing sacrifice. I am not speaking of situations where someone wrongs you and makes earnest efforts to return to your good graces. I’m speaking of situations where you are deeply hurt, abused, neglected, taken for granted, taken advantage of –…